Most powerful motivation comes from within

When my dad was in his eighties and unfortunately, not in very good health. But on some days when he feels a bit better, he would go outside the house, sit on a chair, and learn Malayalam – a language totally alien to him. One day, my neighbor (a retired IAS officer)...

Life is not a single game

A few years ago, while teaching physics to a bunch of high-schoolers, I erred in deriving a formula. And in a split second, even before I could correct myself, a kid raised his hand and pointed out the error. This kid was so brilliant that anything you explained to...

Willpower alone can’t break habits

When your fingers are itching to open WhatsApp or Instagram, why is it so hard to resist? Why can’t you break distractions through sheer willpower? Here is why: 1. Willpower is like a muscle — the more you use it, the more tired you get. So if someone...

Hidden secret to longevity

Once I wrote a newsletter about a sprightly 101-year-old Navy veteran Commander (retired) Sriramulu, who runs 18 km every alternate day. In response, many people emailed me back asking — “What is the secret of his longevity and good health? Surely, there...

Do less, focus more

A McKinsey colleague, curious about my policing experience, once asked me, “What was the most difficult aspect of leading a police force?” The biggest challenge was not the riots or hooligans. It was that everyone thought that everything was urgent and top...