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Why Struggle Never Ends – Even After Success

There is a 99% chance that your struggles will never cease, no matter how successful you become. But this can't be true! What if one achieves superlative success? How many successful entrepreneurs have you seen who go into quiet retirement after a huge success? How...

How the Need to Fit In Shapes Our Choices and Behaviour

An ex-colleague used to show up at work with a Tumi bag. When I learned how atrociously expensive these things were, I asked him, "Why did you buy this? Was it worth it?" This guy had bought it while working with a top-tier private equity fund, which paid insanely. He...

Why Prestigious Jobs Still Leave So Many People Unhappy

About half of the IAS/IPS officers who reach out to me ask me about career opportunities outside the Services. Of course, there is an obvious self-selection here (why else would they reach out to an ex-Civil Servant). Yet, the number of dissatisfied people in highly...

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How to Stay Calm in a Crisis

The first time I fired a 9mm Browning pistol was at Mussoorie's Lal Bahadur Shastri Academy. The instructor lined up five of us, 10 yards from the target, and told us to shoot. After five carefully aimed shots, we excitedly went to check the target and found it...

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Why “Retire Early” Is an Empty Fantasy

When I launched my first startup, on the way to my rented office in Mumbai's Bandra, I would see a house where two retired-looking men would be sitting, listening to vintage Goanese and English songs. Their faces had no joy, no expression. All they had to look forward...

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Why People Struggle Without Mentoring

During my MBA program, I became a student consultant for local businesses in Pennsylvania, as part of a University-run initiative. And like most of my fellow student consultants, I was pretty useless. Here is why. The program implicitly assumed that if you throw a...

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The Hidden Cost of Recurring Meetings

My last project at McKinsey was a very high-profile one -- the client was a vertical CXO at a large global bank. The goal was to flesh out their overall corporate strategy. So naturally, many bigwigs were involved and because of our collective anxiety, a daily call...

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The Power of Focus and Prioritization

Every day, you have 8 to 10 hours to play with. If you spend all your time on emails, ad-hoc meetings, and distracted work, you create value X. If you cut down some distractions, say no to a few random meetings, and do some focused work, the value creation may easily...

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How I Cut My Stress in Half

Five years ago, I cut down my stress by 50% in one move: I banned WhatsApp for official work. Before that, we were using WhatsApp at our startup, and over the years, I had created dozens of WhatsApp groups. Soon, I was mindlessly checking and responding to messages...

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The Power of Small Actions

Every time you innocuously glance at your WhatsApp or Instagram, you are building a habit. Every gratifying action builds a habit -- no exceptions. I had already known this from psychology. But the Buddhist meditation master (Nyanaponika Thera) says: "Repeated...

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Purpose Destroys Procrastination

Even the most hardcore procrastinator forgets to procrastinate when a family member falls ill. They run around like crazy to provide the best possible care. What destroys their procrastination? A sense of purpose -- because they care about their family, they discover...

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Work Culture Differences

While talking to someone who moved from India to Europe, I learned that in Europe, if the work ends at 6 pm, you can't schedule a call at 7:30 pm -- people are fiercely protective of their time. But on the flip side, people take their time commitments seriously. E.g.,...

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